For men who are almost (but not quite) satisfied with their life- and can't figure out what's missing
A group experience for men who want it all
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We are out of balance
We're working hard to do well in our careers
We are doing everything to be a good partner, father, brother, son, team player, friend, leader in our career
We're doing well but something is missing
We are trying to be everything to everyone but losing ourselves in the process
What happened to the adventure, the excitement, the fulfillment?
“You don't know that you need it, but you do” - Ed
We find ourselves tired
Giving away our energy to everyone around us and not having much left for ourselves
Doing well in most areas of our lives but not all
Making trade-offs that mean there is always at least one major area of life that is not where we would like it to be
Feeling bored, uninspired, a lack of excitement
We find ourselves finding it hard to make decisions, not following through on what we said we would do and engaging in self-destructive tendencies
“You gave me the fucking keys to the Empire!“ - Kris
There is a better way
Here’s what I know to be true:
You can have your cake AND eat it
The trade-offs you are making do not need to limit you
Putting your needs first makes you a better provider
It's not selfish to know what you want and make it real in your life- everyone around you benefits, especially those closest to you
A meaningful life is closer than you think
When you're clear on what you want you can start to bring it into your world immediately
Focussing on your inspiration and energy yields huge results
This is not about the occasional weekend of fun, you can access your most potent energy every single day and this changes everything
Your external results are a reflection of your internal orientation
You want to make more money in less time with more fun AND have more adventure, more excitement and more energy- the answers are inside you, not out there
"I have succeeded in getting closer to a source of power and positivity within myself" - Gurj
You need to Rebalance
Get clear on EVERYTHING you want, not what you think you can have
Systematically identify and remove the limiting thought patterns, stories and behaviours that are keeping you out of balance
Access positive energy, inspiration and excitement on tap so you can harness it and use it to propel you forward
Be a good man, make a great living in a way that is meaningful for you, be in good health AND have a lot of fun along the way
Create a life that ticks ALL the boxes
This is a game-changing experience that will impact ALL the areas of your life you want to improve
If you want some of this in your life then I want you to join us
We spend 12 weeks together
You will learn and grow together with a small group of men who are commited to themselves- you have a safe space to share your challenges and your progress
You will focus on yourself, because that is the highest leverage place you can look to create change in your world- you will feel the power of committing to yourself and this alone makes a huge difference
You will uncover the thinking that has been getting in the way for you until now and deal with it for good- you will begin to feel the difference and see the results shifting in your world right from the first conversation
You will learn powerful tools, practices and methods to bring into your daily life that will allow you to access the energy and enthusiasm you need when you need it- you will have simple ways of accessing mnore of the feelings that have you operating as effectievly as you can do
You will have a great time rebalancing your life- you will enjoy the process of discovery and growth and change as you feel and see the shifts happening
"There's nothing to lose and everything to gain. There's nothing to fear.” - John
The full price of the program is £1,500
But this is more than just a commitment of time and money
You need to bring an open mind, a willingness to be honest and to show up fully
I celebrate commitment, fast decision making and immediate action so if you commit with 7 days of receiving this invitation the price is only £997
Use the code: IAMREADY at the checkout
If this feels right for you, jump on this now!
“It’s been incredibly valuable to come to place to be witnessed, without judgement” - Ray
All sessions are on Wednesdays at 8am UK time
We run for 12 weeks, with calls on 3 weeks out of 4
All calls are 90 mins, live on Zoom
All calls recorded for reference or if you need to miss a call
Your investment includes 1 hour 1:1 time with me
The program includes all resources and materials to support your growth, including video, audio and written resources
The experience starts the moment you sign up with pre-work so join us now!
"Solutions or steps forward appear more apparent" - Al
If you want to achieve success in your career AND your relationships AND your health AND your social life
Then stop making the trade-offs, commit to yourself and come to join us
"I was just not really getting the results I wanted. Life really wasn't all that fulfilling and didn't seem like there was as much to look forward to or hoped for as as one would have imagined. I felt myself kind of progressively losing steam.
It seemed to me that certain things I'm just not capable of or worthy of or that are just out of my reach. Too many things have happened for me to adopt certain mentality certain mindsets and some skills I just didn't develop the right way. I had a fundamental belief that there was something was biologically, probably neurologically, wrong with me. Because there was nothing in the way of answers that I could ever find. It was remarkably frustrating because you feel like you're paddling against the current and the river is full of shit and it was not a good feeling.
My decision to attend your course really began with the understanding of the way that you took an interest in who I was and the stuff that I was going through.
That was something I hugely needed at the time, and I very much appreciate it to this day that somebody actually stood up in front of me and asked , hey, what the fuck are you going through? That really never happened to me before.
I knew that the lessons that you impart and the understand that you have has significantly magnetic effects on the people around you and the message that you put forward was highly regarded by everybody that I've seen you talk to about it.
I didn't have any idea what I was going into. And I made that a very conscious decision because I was genuinely curious.
I realised that by understanding why I'm experiencing those emotions, I actually can use that to better myself and to drive myself in a better direction, better habits and just an all around better mentality.
By virtue of all of that, you get to be what you want to be. Its ultimate self determination! Wherever I am now, whatever I do, whatever I may have done, whatever the past is, doesn't matter, because I know exactly how to identify those things. I know how to set my mind to pursuing them. And ultimately, I get to write my own story.
It doesn't matter what anybody throws at me anymore, or what I perceive as being thrown at me.
So yeah, you gave me the fucking keys to the Empire!"
KRIS - CONSULTANT
"I've had a lifelong battle between safety and adventure. I've always chosen safety and the regular income and stability, I guess primarily because of my son and thinking that was the right thing to do to provide for him in a steady and consistent way. But then that leaves you missing the adventure and is a dull and monotonous life.
I knew I needed to change this situation because it was grinding me down. I'm feeling the stress of the work, because there's so much of it, there's a pressure there to get all this stuff done and it's never ending and I don't enjoy it! Conversely, I have been gigging for 25 years and whenever I finish a gig I'll be buzzing because I've made the room move and dance and I know that's where my passion is.
The pandemic compounded it to a point of just being in a state of either anxiety, stress or depression, or boredom or loneliness or just not feeling like I'm achieving what I'm supposed to be achieving in my short time on this planet. Money is a prison to some extent, but I felt like I was in some kind of self-imposed mental prison with it all.
You helped me realise that I'm the one making that stress. I'm defining it as a stressful situation. That has changed now. That's gone. The whole stress level is just gone.
You've helped me to remove the kind of mental prison of anxiety and stress about my job.
I’ve changing the balance of work and life and gigging.
I’ve moved my solo project forward. I’ve lined up some collaborators and the idea has been well received and I’ve bought the gear to do it. I'm speaking it into existence and the feedback has been great!
I've got loads more gigs and I'm seeking out more gigs which is just magnificent and fun. And the gigs have been peaceful mentally because there can be anxiety around that as well. It’s just been even more peaceful and more rewarding and so that's a very clean slate now.
I went in with a very open mind. I thought what is going to happen here? How is this going to happen? What am I going to discover? It was during other people's talks that I saw the most stuff about myself which I didn’t expect.
I didn't think I had any baggage, really. And I did add a couple of big bags, didn’t I? That was really that was a huge weight off my shoulders.
With all that bullshit just gone away, I just saw what I want for music much more clearly, which is lovely. It's been really liberating, in a way that well, how could you anticipate that would happen?!
I've got loads of techniques and methods and daily practices to stay connected to what I learned and what the new truth is, and what the truth has always been.
I've just had a whirlwind week with my son, just had a fucking blast! I see clearly now who I want to be and I'm stepping towards it.
I’m very inspired. Quite the opposite of a stressful anxious mess!"
"I’ve had a huge shift in my focus. I was all over the place. A little bit over here, a little bit over there. I’d have 20 tasks on the go and would have each one at 30 or 40% complete so I always had loads of tasks that were undone.
I felt like I was in a rut, where I had loads to work on but I wasn't getting anything done! I was trying to fulfil loads of different people's needs all the time. My new way of thinking about it is now in my head everyday and I’m so much more focussed. I’m getting lots of great feedback from work.
My listening has got so much better and I feel like I'm making better connections with people. Six months ago, I could annoy people by not listening to them deeply and finding myself always thinking about what I want to say next rather than rather than listening to what they were saying. It’s improved all my relationships; my girlfriend, with friends, family, everything!
I saw something about change. Change can happen in a moment. Change can happen with one thought. I always used to think that if I want to change some things, like quitting smoking, I'm not going to be able to do it. I realised that I can decide to stop smoking and just stop smoking. The realisation that everything's within your own grasp. Anything you want to change is down ultimately down to you.
If someone else who I didn't know had came and said that to me I wouldn’t have known enough about them to know it would have been a good experience. I've spoken to other coaches and people in this field and I can't really get behind what they're saying. I don't believe in what they're saying because they are not living it.
I know you’re a good listener, a really good listener, you’re a person that I can trust in what you're saying.
I've never really done any sort of self help stuff before. I've read a bit of Tony Robbins here and there but this experience has opened my eyes to realise that school is never out. You can always be happy with what you've got, and also aspire to something better as well. I got a deeper appreciation for that I have and all that I have created and am creating.
I've got better at walking up to girls and just talking to them. I’ve talked to so many girls this weekend!
I started doing more kettlebell work at the gym and stretching more. I feel like I’m now doing good, real exercise consistently. I’ve been doing cold showers every day and loving it. I'm used to the cold now!
And I am creating more time to contemplate things. Not always trying to fill every minute of every day with something. Realising it’s ok to have thinking time. I’ve been scoping some business ideas and making some plans.
It's been been a good ride and the ride is continuing.
From when we started talking till now, I’m an improved person. I really feel my growth has accelerated in the last 6 months."
ELLIOT- DEVELOPMENT TECHNOLOGIST
"I can be genuinely myself because I am in a space with other men who genuinely wish me well and who genuinely have the desire to be better versions of themselves."
GURJ- BUSINESS OWNER
"I feel very capable of dealing with my own problems. I always have been, but I challenge anyone to go through this and not find something that's been buried deep inside themselves that they thought they had a lid on, or actually, in the lid lies the problem.
If you are the sort of person who thinks this is all bullshit, then you probably actually probably more likely need it more than those who think they need it."
LAURENCE- DIRECTOR OF PHOTOGRAPHY
“I was trying to juggle too much pressure and stress and I wanted to find a way out of my little circus I've created.
I want security and peace and space and tranquillity for my family and that means that I've got to provide all of that and literally start from the ground up.
I felt like my relationship with my partner was in a precarious place and that was affecting our relationship with our daughter. So that was something I absolutely immediately needed to fix or learn to deal better with. The Intensive gave me an opportunity to put that out in front of other people who want to help.
I always had confidence in Nathaniel. His understanding of the world and the mind and and how the two interact has always been something I've admired. What I didn't realise is that the space that the team has created, you with the actual location and the setup, but also with the guys that we're sharing with you know, we've created this really safe space of no judgement and as much time as you needed to really explore some of these concerns, but without necessarily needing to fix them. Just understanding them from a different perspective.
I feel like I've got a much better way to communicate with my partner. I've got a much better way to deal with the external pressures of modern life, like career, property, the day to day shit. And I feel like I've got a much better way of understanding myself. My strengths and weaknesses, but areas where I should be proud and thankful and appreciative too.
Obviously it’s a leap of faith. What I would say to anyone who's considering this is that the unknown is a beautiful place. There's so much to explore and do and experience that you just don't know what effect it will have on you until you've done it. There's nothing to lose and everything to gain. There's nothing to fear. There's lots of love. And it's it's really an amazing space that has no time no pressure, no external influences to corrupt what is truly yourself.”
JOHN- BUSINESS DEVELOPMENT LEAD